So, the final admissions responses are in, and the universe of options set.  Emily and all her senior friends are back in the driver’s seat, relieved to have gotten in to college, and to have choices.  If they were admitted to more than one college (as most of them were), they now have to pick.  Many of these kids, Emily included, will make a trip or two to a college where they were accepted but which they are not sure about.  The question is, do we tag along, or let her go herself?