In Maryland and across the US, would-be empty nesters are opening their guestrooms up to their adult children. The number of households across the country with an โ€œextra adultโ€ jumped up by two million from 2007 to 2011. High unemployment rates among young people seem to be the main culprit.

Many of us broke twenty- and thirty-somethings can be thankful our parents didnโ€™t share our life trajectories. For example, my father got a job and moved into an apartment at eighteen, bought a house at nineteen, got married at twenty-two, became a father at twenty-three, and started a coin shop at twenty-four. Me, Iโ€™m twenty-eight with $57,000 of college loan debt, and I donโ€™t own anything more valuable than a guitar. (I guess you could say I was actually well-prepared for the downturn โ€” I had been living in my own personal recession since college.)

Certainly, not everyone from my fatherโ€™s generation took his path, and thankfully not everyone in my generation chose mine, but I see the underlying pattern of later starts and more debt in many of my peers. If my son has to mooch off me in thirty years, I wonder what I will have to offer him.