Photo via Inhabitat
Photo via Inhabitat

This column, That Nature Show, is about the nature right under your nose: in our backyards, playgrounds and parks!  Stop and look around, youโ€™ll be amazed at what surrounds you.

Baltimore has a trash-collecting water wheel. Antartica has โ€œBlood Falls,โ€ a seep of brine that is Poe-colored. The Washington Post calls the oozing red waterfall โ€œmagnificently creepyโ€ and scientists this week discovered that it contains โ€œstrange microbial lifeโ€โ€ฆmuch like my fridge, is what I thought. How long has that three alarm chili been in there?

Which brings me to my subject: breaking bread. Sharing food with others. Comfort food.  Sharing a meal with others โ€œactually makes you a better person,โ€ suggests a study in the journal Appetite.

Itโ€™s been a rough week. Iโ€™ve been consumed by the urge to make things for my neighbors. Homemade, calorie-dense things like Dorisโ€™s Salty Hot Fudge Sauce to knit neighborhoods together. I donโ€™t care how simple-minded that sounds. I am bone-headed. Who can resist the sweet peace of a casserole? Or deviled eggs with a sprinkle of paprika on top, each egg in its own little indentation?

Iโ€™m not saying a big shared pot of minestrone with a Parmesan rind in it is a justice band-aid, itโ€™s not. Iโ€™m just saying: Letโ€™s break bread together. I know thatโ€™s Bible-talk, and, through I grew up Episcopalian, Iโ€™m currently more of a rub-a-dub-dub thanks for the grub kind of person. A simpleton. The kid in the back row in 7th biology class who when called upon to state some common pollinators said, โ€œDogs? Like maybe, their fur?โ€ And everyone swiveled around and laughed. I was doing my usual thing. Being out to lunch. Moron. Dummy. I wear these epithets now as emblems, though research shows being bullied by classmates has deleterious long-term health consequences.

When my neighbors brought food to share with my family when my Husb. was in the hospital and recovering from his jaw reconstruction surgery I could have sworn I witnessed their angel wings fold up gracefully behind the dishes of macaroni and cheese and turkey divan, and Iโ€™m not an โ€œangel wingsโ€ kind of person either. See what youโ€™re doing to me, Baltimore? Because of you Iโ€™ve been doing loving-kindness metta meditation.

Today is May Day. Tomorrow is the most exciting two minutes in sports, The Kentucky Derby and Iโ€™m making simple syrup to make Mint Juleps and Derby Pie bars and having people over. Next week is Motherโ€™s Day and Iโ€™m making candied violets for my Ma and having people over. Iโ€™m also making the easiest and most retro cake in the world, Icebox Cake. Ingredients? Chocolate wafter cookies and whipped cream. And youโ€™re done. (The recipe is from the AARP.)

And then in two weeks itโ€™s down to the Pimlico racetrack rail with a large box of sweet cheese Danishes.